January 2007 Page 7
Book Review

Taking Care of the ME in Mommy by Lisa Whelchel
Reviewed by
Pattie


It is January. It’s a new year. It’s time for new beginnings, new year’s goals or resolutions (or not!), new journals and new promises to ourselves and to God.  I think it’s this “newness” that prompts us to re-evaluate our clutter, both inner and outer. I find myself re-evaluating my last year’s resolutions and deciding on new ones, always striving to do the best I can with what I’ve been given.

One of the things I want to do this year is take better care of myself. When I first saw this book by Lisa Whelchel, I was excited by its title. Taking care of myself is something I’m not very good at doing.  I have enjoyed Whelchel’s books in the past, and I loved reading her online journal during the year her family traveled the country in an RV. Her writing style is friendly and straightforward, not didactic and condescending. I eagerly dove into the book.

I am happy to report that I am not disappointed by Taking Care of the ME in Mommy. In fact, I am excited by it! The book is structured around three areas in which moms need to take care of themselves: spirit, body, and soul. The book includes discussion of prayer, Bible study, journaling, healthy eating and exercise, creativity through hobbies, having fun, organization, cooking, finances, friends, and marriage, among others.

What sets this book apart from others of this kind is its sheer practicality. Whelchel includes tips, in sections called “Rest Stops,” on how to incorporate these principles into our very busy daily lives. These “rest stops” are inherently practical, full of suggestions for improving our walk with Jesus and our mothering.  My favorite is the laundry prayers.  For example, when folding laundry, she suggests praying for integrity for your husband while folding his clothes; for unity in marriage when folding your own nightgowns; for modesty when folding your daughter’s shirts; for physical protection when folding your son’s pants. Each chapter is followed by a multitude of suggestions such as these for implementing these principles in our lives. She stresses in the introduction not to feel overwhelmed by the many ideas in the Rest Stops. Choose only one or two to implement at a time.  (I like this choice feature!)

An added bonus is the free “Personal Mom Coaching” that comes with each book. I signed up; what I’m receiving is a new tip each day (for 21 days) in my email inbox to help me establish a new habit. I will be well on my way to taking better care of myself in 2007!

Lisa’s website can be found at
http://www.lisawhelchel.com

Movie Review

Charlotte’s Web
reviewed by
Pattie

Starring: Julia Roberts (Charlotte), Dakota Fanning (Fern), Dominic Scott Kay (Wilbur), Steve Buscemi (Templeton), and a plethora of other celebrity voices.

Synopsis: Based on (and faithful to) E.B. White’s classic book, “Charlotte’s Web” is the story of Fern’s rescue of the runt piglet Wilbur, who eventually grows too large for a house pet and goes across the road to Uncle Zuckerman’s farm. He makes a new friend, a spider named Charlotte, who promises to help Wilbur avoid the inevitable end of a spring pig: the “smokehouse hotel.”  Along the way, the barn animals become friends with one another and unite in support of Charlotte’s campaign to save Wilbur.

In terms of quality, I found this film to be very well done. The animation is superb. CGI continues to improve and it was easy to believe that these animals truly were speaking. Dakota Fanning is just adorable, and her interpretation of Fern was fabulous. I loved Julia Roberts’ voicing of Charlotte; she brought my childhood love of the novel to life on the screen.

The main theme of the movie is friendship. The film's closing line was, and still is, my favorite. “It is not often that someone comes along who is a true friend and a good writer. Charlotte was both."

Rated: G. I would hesitate to take very young children, mainly due to the frank discussion about death. My 7- and 10-year-old daughters handled it well, but younger, sensitive children might be upset by the talk about the possibility of Wilbur becoming bacon, and Charlotte’s eventual demise.

Foul Language: Other than the fact that there are talking geese (thus “fowl” language!), there is not one occurrence of profanity, unless you count “heck” and one incidence of “bloody” (a British profanity spoken by John Cleese's sheep character, not overtly emphasized).

Inappropriate Situations: There are some flatulent cows, voiced by Kathy Bates and Reba McEntire, but compared to other family films, the bathroom humor is mild.

Recommended: This is the inaugural review for our movie review section, and with it I introduce not a five-star rating system, but a kernel system.

I am pleased and proud to give this movie five fully-popped kernels! I found nothing I did not like about the film. I laughed, I cried, and it left me with a sweet longing at the end, wanting to see the film again.

Final note: I highly recommend this film.

Produced by Walden Media, home of "Narnia" and "Because of Winn-Dixie."

For more information about the film:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0413895/

For Focus on the Family's review:
http://www.pluggedinonline.com/movies/movies/A0003003.cfm